So it's a new year, I believe.
Yes, the calendars have changed.
Yes, the annual ritual of creating New Year resolutions and by now, breaking them, might also have been done away with.
However, aside from the difference in writing the dates (where the year column has changed from 12 to 13), is there anything else that is new or has really changed, especially for the better?
We were crying ourselves hoarse about the horrific gang rape of December 16 last year (which, by the way, was also not the first such incident). Probably, its brutality and the easy identification with the hapless victim that it could have been any of us or our very own mother/sister/spouse) is what set that apart from other such equally detestable and heinous crimes.
However, as I skimmed through the news over the last few days, I have rarely seen any day where such reports have abated.
Somewhere or the other, someone or the other, has been ravished and dishonored by some or the other pervert, insensitive lustful beast(s).
I have read about Hisar, Chandigarh, Mumbai, and what not - this, after December 16.
If some of us cannot control our testosterone levels even after such a hue and cry has been made, God save us!
Dear ladies of the Indian republic,
I am sorry.
I am sorry because simply blaming others or the favorite punching bag - our system - is not going to help.
I am sorry because I should be able to do a lot more apart from just bemoaning the sorry state of affairs, and getting on with my life.
I am sorry because perhaps it's the silence of the docile and genuine folks like me whenever a woman is harassed, which is meant to connote passive collusion or apathy for the perpetrators of such crimes.
I am sorry because I have learned to live with such incidents as a part of life.
But enough, is enough.
If this is to truly be a new year, the least I can and must do, is to ensure that I do all that is possible is in my hands to honor, respect and protect women.
I will not be a silent, impassive spectator whenever a woman is being harassed.
I will not look the other way when I find someone passing lewd comments against anyone.
I will not remain glued to my urgent/important tasks when someone's modesty could be in question.
That done, perhaps, shall make for a better (if not happier) New Year.
I'd like to wish all of you too, a similar, Happy New Year!
Yes, the calendars have changed.
Yes, the annual ritual of creating New Year resolutions and by now, breaking them, might also have been done away with.
However, aside from the difference in writing the dates (where the year column has changed from 12 to 13), is there anything else that is new or has really changed, especially for the better?
We were crying ourselves hoarse about the horrific gang rape of December 16 last year (which, by the way, was also not the first such incident). Probably, its brutality and the easy identification with the hapless victim that it could have been any of us or our very own mother/sister/spouse) is what set that apart from other such equally detestable and heinous crimes.
However, as I skimmed through the news over the last few days, I have rarely seen any day where such reports have abated.
Somewhere or the other, someone or the other, has been ravished and dishonored by some or the other pervert, insensitive lustful beast(s).
I have read about Hisar, Chandigarh, Mumbai, and what not - this, after December 16.
If some of us cannot control our testosterone levels even after such a hue and cry has been made, God save us!
Dear ladies of the Indian republic,
I am sorry.
I am sorry because simply blaming others or the favorite punching bag - our system - is not going to help.
I am sorry because I should be able to do a lot more apart from just bemoaning the sorry state of affairs, and getting on with my life.
I am sorry because perhaps it's the silence of the docile and genuine folks like me whenever a woman is harassed, which is meant to connote passive collusion or apathy for the perpetrators of such crimes.
I am sorry because I have learned to live with such incidents as a part of life.
But enough, is enough.
If this is to truly be a new year, the least I can and must do, is to ensure that I do all that is possible is in my hands to honor, respect and protect women.
I will not be a silent, impassive spectator whenever a woman is being harassed.
I will not look the other way when I find someone passing lewd comments against anyone.
I will not remain glued to my urgent/important tasks when someone's modesty could be in question.
That done, perhaps, shall make for a better (if not happier) New Year.
I'd like to wish all of you too, a similar, Happy New Year!
